If you have been looking forward to living a happy life with your partner, there are many things you need to accomplish here.
Get yourself together.
First of all, ladies you have to understand your power as a woman, and own it. If you are looking for a good man you must first start with yourself.
I know that it is hard to find time for yourself especially if you’re a mom, but you have to make an effort to take care of yourself. You need to love yourself before anyone else will love you.
You need to maintain your physical appearance as will as your financial standings.
You should take care of your hair and skin. Eating the right foods will help. Treat your body as a valuable gift. Get plenty of water and exercise and eat a healthy diet.
Maintain a weight that is comfortable to you. This will give you confidence and make you feel better and stimulate your mind so that you can make wise decisions as well as relieve stress.
Manage your household and finances.
You should not appear needy. You need to show your strength. Men want a strong woman. If you can depend on yourself you won’t be quick to rush into a relationship with a guy because he is financially able to take care of you.
If you do that you will transfer your power to him. He will hold the cards, call the shots and I guarantee you will not be happy in that relationship.
Look presentable when you go out, you never know when you might run into Mr. right. Smile and be pleasant. Men will be intimidated if you look like you will bite off their head for saying hi. Don’t be afraid to make the first move. Show interest without coming on to strong. Men like to always feel in control. You can show your interest by smiling, make long eye contact, and saying “hello, how are you”.
This breaks the ice and gives him a chance to start a conversation. You should be honest, if you want him to be honest with you. If you have a boyfriend that’s not a good boyfriend let him know and he will feel comfortable telling you about any relationships he is involved in. Communication is the key to a good relationship.